Time to banish toxic masculinity

Our Good Childhood Report shows an increase in the number of boys worried about how they should look. Is toxic masculinity to blame?

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toxic masculinity has been around a long time

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Toxic masculinity has been around for centuries. It puts pressure on men to think they need to have a strong physique, hide their emotions, and act in an aggressively dominant way.

It’s seen in advertising, pop culture, and now toxic imagery is more accessible to young people through social media. Anyone can post anything and anyone can comment. Young men are constantly confronted by images of what it is to 'be a man'.

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Love Island, the most watched programme on TV amongst 16-24-year-olds, has been criticised for openly promoting toxic masculinity. The men on the show are athletic, good-looking and competitive. The women are slim, beautiful and referred to as 'difficult' if they show signs of anger or annoyance.

The pressure they put on themselves for more popularity is higher than any older generation’s experience.

Toxic masculinity is not just harmful to boys. Conformity to toxic masculine behaviour such as dominance and aggression is harmful to our society as a whole. This desire for superiority challenges women's basic human rights and can be linked to the prevalence of harassment and sexual assaults.

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More needs to be done to address toxic masculinity in the media limelight there are also steps that can be taken at an individual level. Parents and teachers need to prioritise dispelling these dated views of ‘hypermasculinity’.

Young boys need to be taught that communicating their feelings should not be frowned upon, treating women with respect is essential and the notion of a ‘perfect physique’ is not real.

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Andrew, a 21-year-old student, says ‘we can all do more to be more positive, inclusive and attainable in setting out what it means to be a young person moving into adulthood.' 

By listening to young people can we help them overcome the challenges of modern childhood and face their future with hope, confidence and optimism.